Coming To Terms

Hey y’all, So I’m writing this post because it’s been heavy on my heart. I feel like the people around us and the circumstances people have make it so hard to come to terms with life, period. What I mean by this is people seek the approval of others more than their own personal satisfaction. People can’t come to terms with the circumstances of their lives unless someone confirms whether their life is good or bad. How is it that someone who isn’t even in your shoes, doesn’t put in your effort, and won’t even be able to enjoy the fruits of your labor have the ability to assist you in coming to terms with your life? Let me just say this, you and your life is not for everybody. Everyone will not understand the way you think, the way you move, the way you hurt, the way you love, or the way you live, but it’s your life. Stop letting people write the terms and conditions of your life. It’s so normal for people to let others write the rules and regulations of their life when they aren’t even living right themselves. It all comes down to acceptance. The only acceptance you should be expecting or anticipating is if you applied to a job or a club. All in all live, love, laugh on YOUR terms.