Is it Me vs. Me ?!

You ever felt like you couldn’t move forward until you got closure from a certain person or situation? I get it you feel like you just had one more question or one more point to make and then that conversation would help you to get over it? Don’t count on it ... When you “NEED” a conversation to help you get a past that chapter of your life, you wanna then stop and self reflect. Putting your happiness or growth in the hands of someone else can be tricky ... What if they have no desire to meet with you? What if they say all the wrong things and completely shut your feelings out? What if they make it about them? You catch my drift !? I understand a conversation needs to be had and closure can be very important for some people but let’s not give them all our power!!! Make sure that either way the conversation goes you will still continue to push forward. Remember your having the conversation for you so don’t give them a chance to put the attention on them. Tell them what it is you need them to hear & if you have questions ask those in the end so if the energy switches your voice has already been heard. Getting closure can definitely help the growth in someones life and it isn’t a bad thing. What makes it bad is when you cannot move forward with out it. Everything that you go through, YOU can get through. Sometimes we have to seek our own closure, self reflect on why it’s so important to have that conversation. Is my issue truly with the other person or are they personal? A lot of the issues we face come from past trauma or hurt that we never truly dealt with. Don’t make your personal problems someone else’s. Bree🖤x 3.5.18