Destiny

Destiny (n)- the events that will necessarily happen to a particular person or thing in the future. I could start this off by saying your destiny is already pre-planned by God, but you knew that already. But what I will say is there are steps that have to be taken and there are obstacles that you will face while walking the path to your destiny. Now first, you will have issues with the people in your life. People will betray you, you may lose loved ones, people will turn their backs on you, and unfortunately you may feel like it’s you vs. the world. Now when you are in this phase of your life the key is to find peace and solidarity in seclusion. You must rely on yourself for strength and motivation. Next, you will have self-doubt. Take it from me this is the worst thing ever to deal with. You are your own worst critic. In the midst of tearing ourselves down we have a habit of looking for reassurance in others. DON’T. You have to be your biggest fan. This is where confidence comes in. Be confident enough to know you will get where you want in life and humble enough to know that self-doubt is just fear of risk. But of course the best part of destiny is growth. While on your path to destiny you will be attacked by the obstacles in life, but the great part about it is those obstacles have prepared you to enjoy all the blessings God has attached to your destiny. You will become resilient, strong, and independent. But before all of this can happen you have to ask yourself if you’re willing to endure the downs before you reach the ups? Are you willing to grow? Well...are you?