Never let up..girl, keep ya head up!

Have you ever heard the saying “Life isn’t fair”? Probably so ... now imagine hearing that when life was really treating you unfair and it just seemed like downfalls was coming left and right. Unfortunately I’ve been there before, maybe more times then i’d like to remember. Honestly this topic is one of the reasons I started this blog! Understanding your early 20s and everything that comes with it is very important. In my opinion these are the most teaching years of your life and if you struggle to keep your sanity life will tear you right up. It doesn’t get any easier from here. You have to accept that somethings are going to happen no matter how much we try to avoid it. We can’t decide how or when things happens but we have to do our best to pick ourselves up and dust ourselves off once they do. You will began to not take life so personal. Once you began to accept the fact that things are just going to happen you can then learn to step back and examine if it was really a loss or if it just felt like one. Alot of the time we classify “losses” by the way they made us feel or how they may look to other people. When in reality many of the “losses” we experience are lessons. A lot of the people who we’re removed from our life we don’t understand why until we are able to accept it. You ever had something happen and just couldn’t understand why...then weeks or a month later a person show their true colors or you just finally see something for what it is and then say to yourself “Ok now I understand why that happened”? Some people can’t always accept the truth in that moment so once emotions are removed and time has passed it’s easier for you to then understand why or what exactly took place. When life hits you hard and one thing after another happens it’s important for you to take that time to yourself and analyze to get what it is you need and to deal with your emotions the proper way. Find something that brings you peace and use that as your coping method. Remember everything is a teaching experience and life is all about lessons. Keep your head up♥️ #Bree. 1x9x18✨