They don’t hold rank..🗣

Too often we hold ourselves to the standards of this world or even the morals of our parents..Not realizing that the answer to many of our problems and personal issues we can solve ourselves without the unnecessary stresses, anxiety & overthinking. Your clear thoughts become altered when you let people dictate what’s best for you! Many of us are living to make someone else happy, suppressing our true feelings and desires. Eventually this causes us to lose sight of our own vision, making it hard to reach our goals and dreams. How can you make decisions for yourself when you no longer even know what you truly desire? You can’t. Having impaired or cloudy vision will only cause you to make decisions that constantly have you questioning yourself. It can even have you making decisions that pushes further and further from your own happiness without even realizing. Your so caught up in what your parents or friends feel, your feelings are non existent. An opinion is meaningless, they hold as much weight as you let them. All opinions aren’t negative but when your not in a clear head space it can become hard to hear the heart of what someone is saying or even decipher what you should listen to and what you should tune out. Learning to tune out unnecessary opinions will help you to not always seek the approval of someone else. You never want to allow opinions to become so important in your life that you can’t make a choice without the input of another person. This will become an addiction. Yes, an addiction just like an alcoholic will need just “one more” drink to keep going, you will be stuck in the same position over and over again needing someone else’s thoughts to decide what YOU WANT TO DO! True happiness can only be if you learn to silence the opinions of others and can trust yourself to make decisions FOR YOU!    

Bree. 11x11x17 2:28am🦋