Food for thought..

Omg, let me tell you guys how I just had a terrible day. Today, was just so depressing, I literally could have dropped dead and it would have made my day better (no exaggeration). I swear sometimes I just want to give up, but I have to thank God for my good days & my bad days. I find it hard to talk about my feelings, especially to other people. It is a good and bad thing because it protects me from allowing other people to know about my problems, but it forces pain to manifest within myself.

I know a lot of people have this problem, so my first advice is to pray. But after that, I think if you have somebody you really love or a friend who wants the best for you, talk to them. It is a blessing to have people around you who will listen to you and try to help you. But, I also understand everyone doesn't have this luxury so my last advice is to write down your pain. I used to look at people weird when they would tell me to write down my thoughts, but look at me now...a blogger lol. I couldn't wait for my day to be over just to come on here and write about it, I swear.

But anyways, I want people to know that even when they are having a bad day, other than everything I just said, keep in mind that today is a bad day, but more than likely tomorrow will be better. The only thing that should be forced is not allowing things to effect you so drastically that it totally brings you down.

I want to be able to maintain my happiness. Sometimes I feel like i'm alive, but i'm not living. I think an ingredient to maintaining happiness is exactly like what I said before, not letting bad things that happen effect you so much that you make yourself unhappy. Once I figure out the other ingredients to maintaining happiness you guys will be the first to know!

~Tea With Indi

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