Sex vs. Intimacy

My thoughts and feelings on sex are pretty vague! I don't think much about other people sex lives or what it is they do with their body. However, growing up in a religious home sex seemed more negative than positive, which probably has a lot to do with the fact that I don't have many opinions about it! As I've gotten older and have grown in my current relationship I have learned that for me, sex comes after intimacy. I'm more comfortable being open to try new things, when their is a real connection. Most people believe intimacy and sex are the same, but fail to realize they are very different. Having sex with someone without intimacy takes the passion out of it, how can you really connect with a person without at least an intimate conversation?? I also believe that sex only gets better with time lol. Learning what turns your partner on and keeps them going is what makes sex fun and better!! Me and my boyfriend have been together for years and just like any other man he enjoys sex and thinks its pretty important in a relationship. lol I decided to ask him a few questions about the topic and liked to share his answers with you all!!

I first asked him "How important do you think sex is in a relationship?"

Him: "Sex is very important because not only is it bomb as f*, but it releases stress, and it releases tension too."

I then asked him "what makes sex more than just a physical thing for you?"

Him: "Having sex with someone you have feelings for, makes it love making instead of just getting a nut off"

Me: "Do you enjoy fore play or would rather go straight into sex?"

Him: "Foreplay, going straight into sex is boring and feels like its being forced"

Me: "For the record what's your favorite postion?"

Him: "Backshots, baby! you know me"

-Bree. 10.31.17